
Greg and Pam
“Aunt Betty” whose real name was Mrs. Betty Menke taught twelfth grade English at Cozad High School for as long as anyone can remember. We learned about the artist Robert Henri and Aunt Betty’s love of art, we held real English tea parties, we memorized and recited poetry, and she tested us relentlessly over 1000 words from the SAT word list which is the one notebook I still have and use in my own classroom today. She retired after our class graduated
During my senior year with her, she never could remember to call me “Pam”. I was either Judy or Linda because she taught my mother and aunt before me. It must have bothered me as I swore never to make that mistake if ever I became the teacher. However, even though I played school with my childhood friends for hours upon end and my mother is a beloved educator, I vowed never to be a teacher.
Six months into my undergraduate education at UNL and three trips to the career testing center, I changed my major one last time. I would become a high school guidance counselor but I first I had to choose a major—a subject area where I could teach for three years before I could enroll in a graduate program. What subject did I enjoy? Mrs. Menke was fresh in my memory. She had taken us places I didn’t expect to go with an English teacher; I was her outstanding English 12 student because I learned all 1000 SAT words for the final exam. The career counselor suggested I get a second endorsement. Special Education appealed to me because I had grown up with my mother teaching at the Cozad State School for Trainable Mentally Retarded. Those school-age children with special needs were often my playmates.
During college I married my high school sweetheart. After having lived on $5,000 a year, so we were “rich” for the first time when Greg chose the job offer that would land us in McCook, Nebraska. Here I completed my student teaching and taught my first three years in special education. By the time I began teaching for McCook Schools, the Cozad State School had been closed and ironically, some of my childhood playmates became my very first students. When the eighth grade English position opened at the junior high, I changed positions and for the next six years, I taught eighth grade; for sixteen years I taught ninth grade, and four years ago I asked to teach seniors. My tenor is twenty-seven years.
McCook has a population of 8,000 and our high school graduates an average of 130 students each May. My current position includes Advanced Placement/ Dual Enrollment, English 12 (British Literature), and Applied Communications. I am enjoying the changes and challenges that come with teaching seniors. I taught our son and daughter during their ninth grade year of high school and we all survived. We are proud of their rural education and being raised in community of many opportunities since we are the hub of southwest Nebraska. Geographically, we are four hours from Omaha and four hours from Denver. Our town size is both a blessing and curse: you know almost everyone and you know almost everyone. It is wholesome but struggling to attract young people and maintain its population.
“Aunt Betty” whose real name was Mrs. Betty Menke taught twelfth grade English at Cozad High School for as long as anyone can remember. We learned about the artist Robert Henri and Aunt Betty’s love of art, we held real English tea parties, we memorized and recited poetry, and she tested us relentlessly over 1000 words from the SAT word list which is the one notebook I still have and use in my own classroom today. She retired after our class graduated
During my senior year with her, she never could remember to call me “Pam”. I was either Judy or Linda because she taught my mother and aunt before me. It must have bothered me as I swore never to make that mistake if ever I became the teacher. However, even though I played school with my childhood friends for hours upon end and my mother is a beloved educator, I vowed never to be a teacher.
Six months into my undergraduate education at UNL and three trips to the career testing center, I changed my major one last time. I would become a high school guidance counselor but I first I had to choose a major—a subject area where I could teach for three years before I could enroll in a graduate program. What subject did I enjoy? Mrs. Menke was fresh in my memory. She had taken us places I didn’t expect to go with an English teacher; I was her outstanding English 12 student because I learned all 1000 SAT words for the final exam. The career counselor suggested I get a second endorsement. Special Education appealed to me because I had grown up with my mother teaching at the Cozad State School for Trainable Mentally Retarded. Those school-age children with special needs were often my playmates.
During college I married my high school sweetheart. After having lived on $5,000 a year, so we were “rich” for the first time when Greg chose the job offer that would land us in McCook, Nebraska. Here I completed my student teaching and taught my first three years in special education. By the time I began teaching for McCook Schools, the Cozad State School had been closed and ironically, some of my childhood playmates became my very first students. When the eighth grade English position opened at the junior high, I changed positions and for the next six years, I taught eighth grade; for sixteen years I taught ninth grade, and four years ago I asked to teach seniors. My tenor is twenty-seven years.
McCook has a population of 8,000 and our high school graduates an average of 130 students each May. My current position includes Advanced Placement/ Dual Enrollment, English 12 (British Literature), and Applied Communications. I am enjoying the changes and challenges that come with teaching seniors. I taught our son and daughter during their ninth grade year of high school and we all survived. We are proud of their rural education and being raised in community of many opportunities since we are the hub of southwest Nebraska. Geographically, we are four hours from Omaha and four hours from Denver. Our town size is both a blessing and curse: you know almost everyone and you know almost everyone. It is wholesome but struggling to attract young people and maintain its population.
I never became a guidance counselor for a variety of reasons—most of all, time with my family and location, location, location. Like many of my contemporaries, online classes were not available so we took classes that were brought to the area, and somehow I managed to take and pass the GRE and accrue 40 hours of graduate credit. I never pursued the degree and then, along came fate. While attending an Advanced Placement Institute on the UNO campus, I was asked to become the first out-state dual enrollment teacher for UNO. They offered to pay my tuition if I would get a Masters degree in English. I am currently in pursuit and recently transferred my credit and program from Chadron to UNL where all four of us have earned our undergraduate degrees (a couple of us quite awhile ago.)
You have read the tip of the iceberg about my formation and I am anxious to explore the hidden parts not yet visible to the eye.
During my senior year with her, she never could remember to call me “Pam”. I was either Judy or Linda because she taught my mother and aunt before me. It must have bothered me as I swore never to make that mistake if ever I became the teacher. However, even though I played school with my childhood friends for hours upon end and my mother is a beloved educator, I vowed never to be a teacher.
Six months into my undergraduate education at UNL and three trips to the career testing center, I changed my major one last time. I would become a high school guidance counselor but I first I had to choose a major—a subject area where I could teach for three years before I could enroll in a graduate program. What subject did I enjoy? Mrs. Menke was fresh in my memory. She had taken us places I didn’t expect to go with an English teacher; I was her outstanding English 12 student because I learned all 1000 SAT words for the final exam. The career counselor suggested I get a second endorsement. Special Education appealed to me because I had grown up with my mother teaching at the Cozad State School for Trainable Mentally Retarded. Those school-age children with special needs were often my playmates.
During college I married my high school sweetheart. After having lived on $5,000 a year, so we were “rich” for the first time when Greg chose the job offer that would land us in McCook, Nebraska. Here I completed my student teaching and taught my first three years in special education. By the time I began teaching for McCook Schools, the Cozad State School had been closed and ironically, some of my childhood playmates became my very first students. When the eighth grade English position opened at the junior high, I changed positions and for the next six years, I taught eighth grade; for sixteen years I taught ninth grade, and four years ago I asked to teach seniors. My tenor is twenty-seven years.
McCook has a population of 8,000 and our high school graduates an average of 130 students each May. My current position includes Advanced Placement/ Dual Enrollment, English 12 (British Literature), and Applied Communications. I am enjoying the changes and challenges that come with teaching seniors. I taught our son and daughter during their ninth grade year of high school and we all survived. We are proud of their rural education and being raised in community of many opportunities since we are the hub of southwest Nebraska. Geographically, we are four hours from Omaha and four hours from Denver. Our town size is both a blessing and curse: you know almost everyone and you know almost everyone. It is wholesome but struggling to attract young people and maintain its population.
“Aunt Betty” whose real name was Mrs. Betty Menke taught twelfth grade English at Cozad High School for as long as anyone can remember. We learned about the artist Robert Henri and Aunt Betty’s love of art, we held real English tea parties, we memorized and recited poetry, and she tested us relentlessly over 1000 words from the SAT word list which is the one notebook I still have and use in my own classroom today. She retired after our class graduated
During my senior year with her, she never could remember to call me “Pam”. I was either Judy or Linda because she taught my mother and aunt before me. It must have bothered me as I swore never to make that mistake if ever I became the teacher. However, even though I played school with my childhood friends for hours upon end and my mother is a beloved educator, I vowed never to be a teacher.
Six months into my undergraduate education at UNL and three trips to the career testing center, I changed my major one last time. I would become a high school guidance counselor but I first I had to choose a major—a subject area where I could teach for three years before I could enroll in a graduate program. What subject did I enjoy? Mrs. Menke was fresh in my memory. She had taken us places I didn’t expect to go with an English teacher; I was her outstanding English 12 student because I learned all 1000 SAT words for the final exam. The career counselor suggested I get a second endorsement. Special Education appealed to me because I had grown up with my mother teaching at the Cozad State School for Trainable Mentally Retarded. Those school-age children with special needs were often my playmates.
During college I married my high school sweetheart. After having lived on $5,000 a year, so we were “rich” for the first time when Greg chose the job offer that would land us in McCook, Nebraska. Here I completed my student teaching and taught my first three years in special education. By the time I began teaching for McCook Schools, the Cozad State School had been closed and ironically, some of my childhood playmates became my very first students. When the eighth grade English position opened at the junior high, I changed positions and for the next six years, I taught eighth grade; for sixteen years I taught ninth grade, and four years ago I asked to teach seniors. My tenor is twenty-seven years.
McCook has a population of 8,000 and our high school graduates an average of 130 students each May. My current position includes Advanced Placement/ Dual Enrollment, English 12 (British Literature), and Applied Communications. I am enjoying the changes and challenges that come with teaching seniors. I taught our son and daughter during their ninth grade year of high school and we all survived. We are proud of their rural education and being raised in community of many opportunities since we are the hub of southwest Nebraska. Geographically, we are four hours from Omaha and four hours from Denver. Our town size is both a blessing and curse: you know almost everyone and you know almost everyone. It is wholesome but struggling to attract young people and maintain its population.
I never became a guidance counselor for a variety of reasons—most of all, time with my family and location, location, location. Like many of my contemporaries, online classes were not available so we took classes that were brought to the area, and somehow I managed to take and pass the GRE and accrue 40 hours of graduate credit. I never pursued the degree and then, along came fate. While attending an Advanced Placement Institute on the UNO campus, I was asked to become the first out-state dual enrollment teacher for UNO. They offered to pay my tuition if I would get a Masters degree in English. I am currently in pursuit and recently transferred my credit and program from Chadron to UNL where all four of us have earned our undergraduate degrees (a couple of us quite awhile ago.)
You have read the tip of the iceberg about my formation and I am anxious to explore the hidden parts not yet visible to the eye.

Pam – Congratulations on putting up your blog! I enjoyed reading your first entry and getting to know you through the story of your unplanned (but successful!) vocation in teaching, and the story of how you and your family have settled in McCook.
ReplyDeleteIt seems like your location has influenced not only your career path, in not becoming a guidance counselor, but also your understanding of the difficult decisions many high school and college students will face in finding their own career and home – i.e., that their hometown of McCook has a lot to offer but, like other small towns, faces several challenges. So I guess in this sense I do see you being able to provide useful guidance to your senior students in English :)
I’m looking forward to reading your next entry.
Yeah! Another AP Literature teacher! I also teach the dual enrollment class for UNO. I have been so happy with the support and services the English Dept gives us each year. I hae heard about you from Dr. David Peterson (all very positive)so it is nice to be in this class with you. I love that there are people outside of Eastern Nebraska in this class. It will really provide some different perspectives!
ReplyDeletePam:
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your writing with us. I loved how you began to talk about the rural community as a double-edged sword. Everyone knows everything, which is simultaneously great and terrible. As a self-professed "city boy", I failed to adapt to the negative side of the blade, unable to forsake my privacy.
I think there is some interesting place-conscious commentary in the publicity of your life in a small town. I look forward to reading more :)
-Tyler
Dear Pam,
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed reading about your journey through teaching and how you came to where you are at this time. I also said I would never be a teacher, then signed up at the last minute to obtain a dual endorsement in elementary & special education. It’s funny how those “I will never…” end up becoming who you are. Thanks for sharing about “Aunt Betty”, your high school English teacher. As I think about how place has shaped me, I can’t help but thing about how different people/relationships have shaped me. Your description of Aunt Betty made me think of some of my past teachers and their influence on me. I look forward to getting to know you here. Thanks again for sharing.
Jennifer Troester
Pam,
ReplyDeleteIt was so interesting to hear your teaching journey. Like you, I never wanted to teach, but I ended up here, too, for different reasons. I loved your insight on the public life of a small town. When I go to the local grocery store and buy a bottle of wine, the entire student body knows by evening. I certainly agree with Tyler that there is some great place conscious work to be done concerning the public life of a teacher in a small town. Or the public life of all of your residents. It is a tough row to hoe. I also learned something I never knew: UNO has a dual enrollment program. I teach mine through Wesleyan and I know other schools have them, but didn't realize UNO was one of them. I think it's great. Thanks for sharing.
Pam,
ReplyDeleteWhat wisdom you have to offer! Coming from a VERY small community myself, I can completely relate to your commentary about almost everyone knowing you. It is indeed the double edged sword you so vividly describe. Most days I am thankful for my doting neighbors, but at times, I wish I could retreat into seclusion, especially when things aren't going so well and people you don't really know ask you how you are doing. I really love the part where you talk of becoming "rich". My mentor teacher told me her story of earning $8,000.00 her first year of teaching. I can't even imagine...
Hi Pam,
ReplyDeleteWhile reading your lovely blog, I found myself thinking about Nebraska with more sentimentality than I would have preferred. I've lived here a long time, about 16 years, and now find myself working on a Ph.D. I have been thinking about what life will bring when I finish my degree, the inevitable career search, and then get a pang in my chest. What if I don't want to leave Nebraska after all? This is what you've helped me to think about. I love how you were able to learn in an environment that included your family lineage (even if your name was confused with others'). This seems like a great foundation, a comfort. I look forward to getting to know you through your writing.
Pam,
ReplyDeleteYour recollections of "Aunt Betty" have me thinking about my own teacher mentor, Judith Ruskamp. It is amazing how teachers can have such a profound impact. As a teacher myself, it is too easy to forget this in the day-to-day shuffle. I am truly an Eastern Nebraska homebody, as the perspective of being as close to Omaha as to Denver seems terribly far away. Of course it really isn't, but I look forward to your Eastern Nebraska perspective. Love your closing lines.
Pam, thanks for sharing your story about becoming a teacher! I'm impressed you learned the 1,000 words for the SAT. These words resonated with me: "...even though I played school with my childhood friends for hours upon end and my mother is a beloved educator, I vowed never to be a teacher." My mom was a teacher and I always thought she worked too hard and never got the recognition she deserved. Only recently have I felt the desire to teach. I left the small town where I grew up for the same reasons you mention (everyone knows everyone), but a large place can be just as limiting/ delimiting. I treasure your rural voice and look forward to reading more.
ReplyDeletePam,
ReplyDeleteYour journey has not taken you to many places physically, but I get the sense that your spirit has gone to many different locations that have helped make you that strong English teacher you are today. I didn't even know there was a list of 1000 words for the SAT (What can I use for an excuse this time? Oh, yes, I vaguely remember that it was before my time. By the way, Stanley Kaplan, who might have been in cahoots with your English teacher, since he invented the concept of test prep to raise scores for the Scholastic Aptitude Test, just died on August 23 at age 90). Since I accidentally deleted my first post to you, I feel I have rambled on to you for quite a while. Keep writing!
Pam--
ReplyDeleteMcCook is just a hop, skip, and a jump from my neck of the woods! Glad to have another southwestern Nebraska teacher on board :) Parts of your story remind me of myself...I married when I was in college. I was freshly 20 and about to start my junior year. My husband had just accepted his first teaching job at a small school (Elm Creek) while I finished college and worked part-time at coffee shops, chocolate stores, and babysat. When we moved out here we really thought we were rolling in the dough because we both had "real" jobs! I know you had mentioned that your son and his wife are moving back to McCook....how did they end up winding their way back? I'd be interested in hearing more about that. Also--thanks for discussing that teacher who had an affect on you...I have a few of those and it's good to think about them every now and then :)
I'm looking forward to hearing more from you!
Pam:
ReplyDeleteI'm glad to have you with us, and very much hope the online opportunities through UNL serve you well. I too enjoyed your teaching story, initially thinking you'd never teach and then ending up in it! I too remember going through something similar . . . how could someone as shy as I was (am) manage being in front of people, even younger people, all day every day? I don't know how common it is, but I still am sleepless and get the sweats before the first day of every semester. I'm not at all sure what the dread is, since five minutes into class and they're all just people. But it's there.
Like Tyler and Erica, I'll be curious to hear more from you about how your "blessing and curse" town shapes your experience with place, and teaching, and citizenship.
~Robert
Hi Pam,
ReplyDeleteIt's so nice having some teachers in this class from "out-state!" Working with he NeWP, especially, has made me more conscious of the east-side bias inherent in so many of our state systems. I know that driving long distances becomes a way of life for folks in your area, but it still has to be annoying.
Great story about "Aunt Betty," your English teacher inspirational hero. She sounds pretty hard-core with the 1000 SAT words! How nice that UNO recuited you to teach the dual-enrollment classes! It's suh a great opportunity for students, don't you think? I taught a version of that class at Arlington for a while. It was strange trying to get at a college-level type of classroom with high school seniors who were still very much in the high school mindset.
Sounds like many of us have a conflicted relationship with our place!
Pam,
ReplyDeleteI agree with many of the comments already here. I also like the idea of contemplating how the emotional "places" in our lives (when we swore we'd never, ever be teachers) turned into places where we came to see those people who once pushed us from the vocation somehow led us back there. I imagine that there is a place we have to come to where we accept that places--emotional and physical--choose us. Thanks for sharing. And Susan is right: we need your perspective.
Hi Pam
ReplyDeleteIt is indeed interesting the ways seemingly unrelated pieces of interests puzzle fit together—in ways we often hadn’t imagined. I’m fascinated with the variety of “Nebraska places” represented by our collective blogs. I’m sort of jealous of your proximity to both Omaha and Denver, as I’ve been of my friends who live in Sydney and Lyman and do their annual Christmas shopping in Denver. Aunt Betty sounds so inspirational—and I sense more stories in the few glimpses you give of her.
Thanks for your introduction to your places.
Mary
I might have said this in another blog response, but I so enjoy reading about the journey one makes from becoming an “adult” to finding his or her true calling. It’s always interesting to learn of others’ paths and even better to read their reflections (such as this blog) of those paths. I’ve enjoyed reading yours.
ReplyDeleteIt’s interesting, the how & why people become teachers. Perhaps we can all share the stories of our paths.